Also: seeing ANY Ayn Rand books mentioned fondly in a dude’s profile was a hard pass.
Other dudes read that and thought: “NOPE!” and kept scrolling, and that’s a good thing. “I’m a peach of a girl, (I don’t even know why I’m weighing in here–I don’t date, because my dealbreaker is basically “Have you been socialized as A Man under patriarchy? I sorta started having that moment too. To be honest, I think this LW might be overthinking the question.
Have opinions. You don't have to be a rich man. There are plenty of beautiful men with beautiful ponytails (HELLOOOOOO, THOR!) Don’t be afraid to alienate people by having strong opinions and preferences. They had the quizzes, but they also had a ranking system of “attractiveness” based on how many people interacted with your profile. I gave up after about eight months, since the zero reward from an hours-a-week time investment wasn’t anywhere close to worth it. “What are you looking for in a relationship” “I know you say you want to date someone close to your own age but a younger man is actually better, I have more energy, you should want to date me.” Or “I know we live far away from each other and have absolutely nothing in common in terms of social or political values, but we’re both looking for relationships, so we’re looking for the same thing, and therefore you’re not allowed to say no to me.”. They’re just idiots who don’t know how to talk to anyone. I’d had years of bad dating/relationship experiences and I actually took a self-imposed break from dating to figure out what I actually wanted/needed in a relationship. Perhaps your destiny is among them? I never understood why I got so many creepy, inappropriate, or throwaway messages from “legitimate” OLD site users. It’s a trick question isnt it? Something to remember if ever you plan to settle down with a Chinese girl. If you make up your mind to seek out a Chinese girl for marriage, it may be wise to understand the differences in culture between yours and her, this will ease, somewhat, the pursuit of a Chinese woman for marriage. If you realize you’re entitled to say “no, I’m not into guys,” a woman is entitled to say “no, I’m not into frat guys” or “Republicans” or “poets” or “people who only speak one language.” Just as a 35- or 40-year-old guy gets to say “she’s too old” about a woman ten years older than he is, a younger woman gets to say the same about him. I think the reasonable side of ‘don’t be exclusionary’ is something like ‘think about what your real priorities are and don’t get distracted by things that aren’t actually that important to you’. The most common hair color is either brown or black.
There’s a difference between not being into (say) fat ladies, and telling fat ladies that you’re willing to date them EVEN IF they don’t meet your ideal hawtness-scale (wtf, nobody wants to hear that, and it’s not up to other people to deal with your emotions about it). Ukrainian wives often support their man's favourite football team. I noticed there was a small contingent of dudes (I’m a cishet woman) who in the initial chats would specifically ask me what kind of relationship I wanted. I think many asexuals have given up. Yes! So it’s amazing to think about how to actually use a dating site in a positive and thoughtful way to present the side of me that can be prickly and a bit Much (according to 90% of men including my father) with the opinions, and to give myself some space and kindness to work out what partner fits the new spaces in my life. The only things I am 100% not open to are BS drama and being treated like crap. For some people these things genuinely are important, which is fair enough, but sometimes you just vaguely assume ‘oh that person won’t like me, my music isn’t cool enough’ or something like that. You can see me try to compensate or correct or some of the lessons I’d learned from other relationships and dating experiences. ?” talk. You have to “like” other people’s profiles and have been “liked” by them in turn in order to message folks now. You think a good evening would be scouting out a grocery store and making an ambitious recipe together. I think the follow-up to that is not making the emotional weight of your decision be borne by the people you are (or aren’t) dating, and being clear on what you’re looking for. On our first date, he was also very (disconcertingly) explicit (but not pushy!) Be respectful. I wish there was a “smart-guys-who-like-to-read-and-think-about-how-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-and-also-want-to-date-kickass-fat-ladies.com” where I could just go and find them. In other words, don’t make yourself go on dates with men with ponytails if it’s not your jam. So how do I answer the question in a way that helps me filter out the jerks and time wasters whilst still keeping my options open? No woman likes an asshole, and they certainly would not want to marry one. Therefore, to help reduce the... Advertisements online and in various magazines tout the so-called benefits for Westerners who prefer a Chinese girls for marriage.
I mean, we’re talking history, centuries of it; and the Japanese are a people who hold on to traditions, customs, and ways.
I certainly agree with you that one’s pants are not the place to make societal advances for the sake of social justice. That doesn’t mean “No introverts,” just that I want someone who draws people to him and welcomes them in. They see themselves taking care of their children and home once they marry. Messages about how I’m too (pretty, interesting, whatever) to respond to poor, nice guy him were immediately deleted.
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